Cord Cutting Ritual Information and Instructions

Materials Needed:

  • Cord Cutting Loose Ritual Incense
  • Charcoal disc (Suggested but not required)
  • Cauldron (Suggested but not required)
  • Small jar of Black Obsidian chips
  • Single Lapiz Lazuli crystal
  • Black candle
  • White candle
  • Lighter or Matches
  • Moon water spritzer
  • Twine

Items and Their Significance

  1. Cord Cutting Loose Ritual Incense: This special blend of incense is crafted specifically for cord-cutting rituals. Its ingredients are chosen for their energetic properties, aiding in the release of emotional attachments, the severing of unhealthy ties, and the purification of the spirit.
  2. Black Obsidian chips: Black Obsidian is a powerful protective stone that absorbs negative energy and shields against psychic attacks. In cord-cutting rituals, it helps to ground and protect the practitioner, creating a safe space for releasing attachments and moving forward.
  3. Lapis Lazuli crystal: Lapis Lazuli is a stone of truth, self-awareness, and inner wisdom. Its deep blue color symbolizes the depths of the subconscious mind and the clarity that comes from introspection. In cord-cutting rituals, it aids in uncovering and acknowledging the truth of one's emotions, facilitating the process of letting go and moving on.
  4. Black candle: Black candles are often used in magic for banishing, protection, and the breaking of negative influences. In a cord-cutting ritual, the black candle represents the dissolution of ties to the past, the release of negative attachments, and the banishment of unwanted energies.
  5. White candle: White candles symbolize purity, clarity, and spiritual illumination. In this ritual, the white candle serves as a beacon of light, guiding the practitioner towards inner peace, healing, and the realization of new beginnings.
  6. Moon Water Spray: Moon water is water that has been charged with the energy of the moon, typically during a full moon. It's used to cleanse and bless sacred spaces, altars, and tools. The spray form makes it convenient for cleansing the ritual space and preparing it for the work ahead.
  7. Twine: Twine represents the cords or ties that bind us to people, situations, or emotions. In the ritual, it serves as a physical representation of these attachments, allowing the practitioner to visualize, acknowledge, and ultimately release them through the act of unwinding and burning the twine.


Each of these items are chosen not just for their practical uses in the ritual, but also for their symbolic meanings and metaphysical properties, which are thought to enhance the effectiveness of this spell. This combination of elements helps to create a balanced and powerful magical practice focused on enhancing personal allure and beauty.



  1. Setting Up: Begin setting up your altar by placing the cauldron (if using) in the center. If not using a cauldron simply put the Cord Cutting Loose Ritual Incense in a bowl in the center of your altar and skip step 3. Lay out the black obsidian chips in a circle around the cauldron and positions the lapiz lazuli crystal at its front. Place each candle in its own holder and wrap both loosely with twine, effectively “tying” them together.
  2. Cleansing the Space: Before starting, spritz the area with moon water, chanting:
    • "Bathed in moon's glow, bless this water, imbue our space with light and protection, grace this altar with celestial embrace."

  3. Lighting the Incense: Place a charcoal disc inside the cauldron and light it. Once it's glowing, sprinkle the Cord Cutting Loose Ritual Incense over it, watching as the smoke begins to rise, filling the air with its protective scent and begin calling in energies of release and acceptance.
  4. Lighting the Candles: Take this moment to ground yourself and your energy. Light both candles while focusing on the flame, visualizing the emotional cords that bind you to your ex.
  5. Incantation: Recite the incantation (provided below) with intention and conviction 3 times.:
    • "By the power of the elements and the strength within me, I release these cords that bind and confine me. With this ritual, I sever all ties that no longer serve, Freeing my heart and spirit, I reclaim what I deserve. As this twine burns, so too shall my attachments fade, I am released, I am free, by my will, it is made."
  6. Meditate and Visualize:
    • As the candles burn and the twine burns away, visualize the release of the emotional attachments and feel yourself becoming free.
  7. Close the Ritual:
    • Allow the candle to burn until the twine breaks then extinguish the candles. Allow the incense to burn out completely. Conclude your ritual by grounding yourself and expressing gratitude to the elements and forces that assisted you.


This ritual and the corresponding items create a potent setting for a powerful release from attachment, utilizing the magical properties of each component to enhance the overall effect. By carefully performing these actions, step into your power and shape the world around you through your newfound magical skills.


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